[submodule] Pin fmtlib/fmt to 10.1.0 (#106672)
fmt10.1.0 fixes a bug of format_string_checker initialisation order which is important to our improved clang-tidy checks #103058. This PR upgrades third_party fmt to 10.1.0, in the meanwhile, kineto is also upgraded to avoid fmt errors.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/106672
Approved by: https://github.com/Skylion007
