[PyTorch] -DNDEBUG in inductor codecache builds (#110876)
Things like TORCH_INTERNAL_ASSERT_DEBUG_ONLY care about this!
Differential Revision: [D49972742](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D49972742/)
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/110876
Approved by: https://github.com/chenyang78, https://github.com/jansel, https://github.com/desertfire
