Allow more inserts before reIndexTopology (#102312)
Summary:
Currently if you are inserting into JIT IR at the same point in the middle of the graph,
it only allows for 40 inserts before it has to reindex. Reindexing is N**2 behavior, which can
lead to slow load times. This changes it so that it keeps track of how many insertions happen
at single point (like when a function is being inlined) to predict how many future insertions will happen
there. It then adjusts how it assigns topology to make sure there is enough room for those predicted insertions.
In practice this will allow around 2M inserts at a single point before it reindexes.
Test Plan: test_jit.py
Differential Revision: [D46206617](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D46206617)
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/102312
Approved by: https://github.com/eellison
