[CUDA graphs] Allows Adam and AdamW to be capture-safe (#77862)
Near term fix for https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/76368.
Q. Why does the user need to request `capturable=True` in the optimizer constructor? Why can't capture safety be completely automatic?
A. We need to set up capture-safe (device-side) state variables before capture. If we don't, and step() internally detects capture is underway, it's too late: the best we could do is create a device state variable and copy the current CPU value into it, which is not something we want baked into the graph.
Q. Ok, why not just do the capture-safe approach with device-side state variables all the time?
A. It incurs several more kernel launches per parameter, which could really add up and regress cpu overhead for ungraphed step()s. If the optimizer won't be captured, we should allow step() to stick with its current cpu-side state handling.
Q. But cuda RNG is a stateful thing that maintains its state on the cpu outside of capture and replay, and we capture it automatically. Why can't we do the same thing here?
A. The graph object can handle RNG generator increments because its capture_begin, capture_end, and replay() methods can see and access generator object. But the graph object has no explicit knowledge of or access to optimizer steps in its capture scope. We could let the user tell the graph object what optimizers will be stepped in its scope, ie something like
```python
graph.will_use_optimizer(opt)
graph.capture_begin()
...
```
but that seems clunkier than an optimizer constructor arg.
I'm open to other ideas, but right now I think constructor arg is necessary and the least bad approach.
Long term, https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/71274 is a better fix.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/77862
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang
