[CUDA12] Clean up deprecated APIs (#91050)
See #91122
Summary:
Some APIs are deprecated in newer version of CUDA.
* cudaGraphInstantiate:
From:
```
cudaGraphInstantiate ( cudaGraphExec_t* pGraphExec, cudaGraph_t graph, cudaGraphNode_t* pErrorNode, char* pLogBuffer, size_t bufferSize )
```
To
```
__host__​cudaError_t cudaGraphInstantiate ( cudaGraphExec_t* pGraphExec, cudaGraph_t graph, unsigned long long flags = 0 )
```
* cudaProfilerInitialize: deprecated in cuda 11 and removed in cuda 12
Test Plan: GH CI
Differential Revision: D41469051
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/91050
Approved by: https://github.com/jianyuh
