[dtensor] use tracing for metadata prop (#95456)
This PR uses tracing for metadata prop, so that we can get correct
shape/stride metadata without manual calculation by ourselves.
The follow up PR on this would be adopt tracing for the sharding
prop itself
Differential Revision: [D43643578](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D43643578)
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/95456
Approved by: https://github.com/XilunWu
