Add backward support for rudimentary NestedTensor.sum(dim) (#82625)
Per offline discussion, this will be updated to use expand once expand semantics for nested tensor have been fleshed out.
Next steps will be to add support for other features for forward sum mentioned on #82387 and likewise update the backward
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/82625
Approved by: https://github.com/albanD
