Use CMake for breakpad (#63186)
Summary:
We currently build breakpad from [this fork](https://github.com/driazati/breakpad) to include extra logic to restore signal handlers that were previously present. With some [new additions](https://github.com/google/breakpad/compare/main...driazati:main) this fork now includes a CMake based build, so we can add breakpad as a proper dependency rather than rely on including it in Docker images as a system library which is error prone (we have a bunch of images) and hard to extend to MacOS / Windows. This also includes some changes to the crash handling code to support MacOS / Windows in a similar way to Linux.
```python
import torch
# On Windows this writes crashes to C:\Users\<user>\AppData\pytorch_crashes
# On MacOS/Linux this writes crashes to /tmp/pytorch_crashes
torch.utils._crash_handler.enable_minidumps()
# Easy way to cause a segfault and trigger the handler
torch.bincount(input=torch.tensor([9223372036854775807]))
```
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/63186
Reviewed By: malfet, seemethere
Differential Revision: D30318404
Pulled By: driazati
fbshipit-source-id: 0d7daf3701cfaba5451cc529a0730272ab1eb1dc
