[JIT] Replace uses of "blacklist" in jit/_recursive.py (#41457)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/41457
**Test Plan**
Continuous integration.
**Fixes**
This commit partially addresses #41443.
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: suo
Differential Revision: D22544274
Pulled By: SplitInfinity
fbshipit-source-id: ee74860c48d85d819d46c8b8848960e77bb5013e
