Re-land sym_numel (#82374) (#82726) (#82731) (#82855)
### Description
This is a reland of (#82374) (#82726) (#82731)
This PR has no extra fixes, it simply updates the **correct** pin to point to the XLA side that has the corresponding changes.
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Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/82855
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang, https://github.com/qihqi
