[CI] Fix concurrency for tagged pushes (#81154)
For pull request or tagged pushes there should be only one active
workflow per PR/tag
For branch pushes there could be multiple
Test plan: See [branch push](https://github.com/malfet/deleteme/runs/7260062596?check_suite_focus=true#step:2:5) vs [tagged push](https://github.com/malfet/deleteme/runs/7260075080?check_suite_focus=true#step:2:5) in my toy repo
Fixes https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/81148
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/81154
Approved by: https://github.com/suo, https://github.com/b0noI
