[FSDP()][10/N][11/N] Introduce composable (ctor only) (#87924)
This PR introduces the composable FSDP API (with constructor semantics only) along with some further constructor refactoring. A notable contribution here is `_get_submodule_to_states()`, which performs auto wrapping without actually wrapping.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/87924
Approved by: https://github.com/mrshenli
