[fbia] Keep Track of full qualified name before and after remote sharding (#83889)
Summary: track qualname changes in embedding sharding & FX split, and compose target qualname in the end of FBIA transform stage, so we can use the qualname mapping in XL materialize stage
Test Plan:
CI/CD
with DISABLE_XLEBB_MATERIALIZATION = True
https://fburl.com/fblearner/a8yljbux
with DISABLE_XLEBB_MATERIALIZATION = False
https://fburl.com/fblearner/2nvi0dam
Reviewed By: lliu315gt
Differential Revision: D38772525
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/83889
Approved by: https://github.com/houseroad