[kineto] Update Kineto submodule, cupti library paths (#57789)
Summary:
Update kineto submodule, improve cupti detection
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/57789
Test Plan: CI
Reviewed By: ngimel
Differential Revision: D28297175
Pulled By: ilia-cher
fbshipit-source-id: 5895270fae160097ae8872a592984d0e4a1b187b
