[pt2] Turn off lazy reinit when cuda graph is on (#101848)
Summary: cuda graph doesn't work with cuda 11's cupti lazy reinit. So we'll turn it off if any modules turn on cudagraph
Test Plan: test with cuda graph on
Reviewed By: aaronenyeshi
Differential Revision: D45967197
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/101848
Approved by: https://github.com/aaronenyeshi
