Fix upsample kernel launch / reorder arguments (#20505)
Summary:
this is a follow up for https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/19630
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/20505
Differential Revision: D15392706
Pulled By: ezyang
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