[JIT] Replace use of "blacklist" in xnnpack_rewrite (#41455)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/41455
**Test Plan**
Continuous integration.
**Fixes**
This commit partially addresses #41443.
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: eellison
Differential Revision: D22544275
Pulled By: SplitInfinity
fbshipit-source-id: 5037b16e6ebc9e3b40dd03d2ce5a0671d7867892
