Change ProcessGroupNCCL default timeout to 10 min (#110947)
Avoid changing default for other backends as CPU backend (GLOO) may need
longer timeouts.
Motivated by trying to save cluster time when encountering collective
hangs. Generally collectives should time out within seconds and 30
minutes (or 10 minutes) should provide ample headroom for edge cases.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/110947
Approved by: https://github.com/xw285cornell, https://github.com/fduwjj
