Fix `PyTorchStreamWriter` exception handling (#88128)
Avoid double exception in destructor if attempting to serialize to
python object that does not have `write` method
Use `Finalizer` class in `PyTorchStreamWriter::writeEndOfFile()` to a
always set `finailized_` property even if excretion occurs. (as there
isn't much one can do at this point)
Add expicit check for the attribue to `_open_zipfile_writer_buffer` and
add unitests
Modernize code a bit by using Python-3 `super()` method
Fixes https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/87997
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/88128
Approved by: https://github.com/albanD
