[Reland #4] Include AT_PARALLEL_OPENMP/AT_PARALLEL_NATIVE/AT_PARALLEL_NATIVE_TBB to ATen/Config.h (#40211)
Summary:
Fixes https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/39471
Reland of https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/39612 #39881 https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/40045 #40122
Proof: [green TBB test](https://app.circleci.com/pipelines/github/pytorch/pytorch/182769/workflows/ae9f4f7a-791a-49df-9625-e2f0a51e70e7/jobs/5910591/steps)
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/40211
Reviewed By: malfet
Differential Revision: D22128537
Pulled By: pbelevich
fbshipit-source-id: 98c589405daafc2c81f76e1d5c1aef5e57065351
