Set USE_RCCL cmake option (dependent on USE_NCCL) (#31341)
Summary:
so that Gloo build has RCCL path enabled for ROCm
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/31341
Differential Revision: D20379910
Pulled By: ezyang
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