Avoid unnecessary copy of padding/dilation vectors in check_shape_forward (#72019)
Summary: Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/72019
Test Plan: CI + perf measurement
Reviewed By: marksantaniello
Differential Revision: D33846964
fbshipit-source-id: d206387a6efd16005e0cda75da9fd5fac40b405b
(cherry picked from commit 02bbdd78d2353d641622acd071b26dc7686a9e5c)
