Python Bindings for SymInts (#78135)
This PR adds support for `SymInt`s in python. Namely,
* `THPVariable_size` now returns `sym_sizes()`
* python arg parser is modified to parse PyObjects into ints and `SymbolicIntNode`s
* pybind11 bindings for `SymbolicIntNode` are added, so size expressions can be traced
* a large number of tests added to demonstrate how to implement python symints.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/78135
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang
