Update tracing rules for new cudnn functions (#120268)
# Summary
This updates the trace_rules with the new cudnn torch functions for sdpa
To repro:
`pytest test/dynamo/test_trace_rules.py -k test_torch_name_rule_map_updated`
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/120268
Approved by: https://github.com/shuqiangzhang, https://github.com/huydhn, https://github.com/yanboliang
