Do not test batched forward grad for inplace ops (#69558)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/69558
Currently we skip batched forward grad checks completely for certain views that also have inplace variants. This PR allow us to decouple the check.
Alternative: just skip the batched forward checks for inplace ops entirely. I'm okay with this because it was surprising to me these checks are being run in the first place.
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: albanD
Differential Revision: D33020599
Pulled By: soulitzer
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