Extend workflow sync to more workflow (#106331)
To `slow.yml` and `mac-mps.yaml`, based on the results of the following grep:
```
% grep "sync-tag: " .github/workflows/*.yml
.github/workflows/mac-mps.yml: sync-tag: macos-12-py3-arm64-build
.github/workflows/mac-mps.yml: sync-tag: macos-12-py3-arm64-mps-test
.github/workflows/pull.yml: sync-tag: asan-build
.github/workflows/pull.yml: sync-tag: asan-test
.github/workflows/pull.yml: sync-tag: win-cpu-build
.github/workflows/pull.yml: sync-tag: rocm-build
.github/workflows/slow.yml: sync-tag: asan-build
.github/workflows/slow.yml: sync-tag: asan-test
.github/workflows/trunk.yml: sync-tag: macos-12-py3-arm64-build
.github/workflows/trunk.yml: sync-tag: macos-12-py3-arm64-mps-test
.github/workflows/trunk.yml: sync-tag: win-cpu-build
.github/workflows/trunk.yml: sync-tag: win-cuda-build
.github/workflows/trunk.yml: sync-tag: rocm-build
```
Allow synced workflows to diverge with regards to `test-matrix`, to allow for both `mac-mps` and slow part of ASAN tests.
Discovered while working on https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/105260 that slow sync-tag is not checked.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/106331
Approved by: https://github.com/huydhn, https://github.com/atalman, https://github.com/seemethere
