Run tests in USE_PYTEST_LIST through run_tests (#95659)
Part of my effort to move everything to pytest and decrease the number of testrunner frameworks in ci
Gives xmls but they might look a weird b/c module level tests vs tests in classes.
Doesn't give skip/disable test infra because those are tied to classes. (for future ref, could either put tests in classes or move the check_if_enable stuff into a pytest hook)
Tested in CI and checked that the same number of tests are run
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/95659
Approved by: https://github.com/huydhn
