[quant][graphmode] Fix add_relu patterns for scripting and tracing (#39455)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/39455
1. enable filters in PatternInfo
2. add aten_add_alpha_is_one filter
3. add is_functional_relu filter
4. add is_relu_module filter
5. fix the relu module method call matching in traced modules with regex
6. add aten::add - aten::relu patterns for traced modules
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Differential Revision: D21917118
fbshipit-source-id: e67b55cd1c070fd4238f563d933a6f10a3582ae3
