[ONNX] Update the default opset to version 14 (#83284)
Update the default opset by running the `update_default_opset_version.py` script. The update is done in a regularly to ensure we are in sync with the onnx updates. All changes are produced by the script.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/83284
Approved by: https://github.com/AllenTiTaiWang, https://github.com/malfet, https://github.com/BowenBao
