[AOTI] Rename config.aot_inductor.abi_compatible (#119065)
Summary: Rename config.aot_inductor.abi_compatible to config.abi_compatible, since the cpp_wrapper mode in JIT Inductor will share the same flag.
Differential Revision: [D53478752](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D53478752)
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/119065
Approved by: https://github.com/khabinov
