[DataLoader] Switch to guaranteed determinism & add option to non_deterministic (#53532)
Summary: Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/53532
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: VitalyFedyunin
Differential Revision: D26888825
Pulled By: ejguan
fbshipit-source-id: 1e8c266146aa802a43e8c23c4f0b3b02134c8b50
