Recognize transposed dense tensors as a form of partial overlap (#59014)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/59014
Fixes #48401
`assert_no_overlap` currently has a false-negative where it recognizes
the transpose of a contiguous tensor as fully overlapping. This happens because
the memory regions do fully overlap, but of course the strides are different so
the actual elements don't all overlap.
This goes slightly in the other direction, by requiring strides to exactly
match we get false-positives for some unusual situations, e.g.
```
torch.add(a, a, out=a.view([1, *a.shape]))
```
Or replacing strides of length-1 dimensions, etc. However, I think these are
sufficiently obscure that it's okay to error and the common cases like
inplace operations still work as before.
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: gchanan
Differential Revision: D29040928
Pulled By: ngimel
fbshipit-source-id: 5a636c67536a3809c83f0d3117d2fdf49c0a45e6
