[quant][pt2e][be] Remove _input_output_share_observers and _reuse_input_obs_or_fq from QuantizationAnnotation (#102854)
Summary:
att, after we support SharedQuantizationSpec we don't need these things anymore, this PR refactors the
uses of _input_output_share_observers to SharedQuantizationSpec
Test Plan:
```
buck2 test mode/opt caffe2/test:quantization_pt2e -- 'caffe2/test:quantization_pt2e'
```
Reviewed By: andrewor14
Differential Revision: D46301342
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/102854
Approved by: https://github.com/andrewor14