[Static Runtime] Skip ProcessedNode:: verify_no_memory_overlap() for out variants (#68639)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/68639
Fix all problems related to `ProcessedNode:: verify_no_memory_overlap()`
- Only enable this check for native and fallback ops that are not inplace or view ops
- Enable ProcessedNode:: verify_no_memory_overlap() in debug mode and enforce it
- Add gflag --static_runtime_disable_debug_memory_overlap_check to test the runtime memory overlap fix for bad schemas
fb::expand_dims's schema was not correct after this check is re-enabled. It's fixed in D32556204 (https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/commit/39ab4171072f8c5cb6e0f0d15268310824d1653c)
Reviewed By: mikeiovine
Differential Revision: D32553708
fbshipit-source-id: 88de63cdf1ee4f87b7726c8b65a11a5fb8a99d13
