Fix bugs in sparse compressed tensor shape and device inference (#85240)
Fixes #84999
This PR
- uses device option to set sparse compressed tensor instance device
- enables shape and device inference tests that was disabled due to an oversight
- fixes a bug in shape inference of hybrid tensors
- fixes a bug in to_sparse_bsr of a cuda tensor
- updates tests that catch the above bugs
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/85240
Approved by: https://github.com/cpuhrsch
