Add `inputs` argument to `autograd.backward()` (#46855)
Summary:
Fixes https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/46373
As noted in https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/46373, there needs to be a flag passed into the engine that indicates whether it was executed through the backward api or grad api. Tentatively named the flag `accumulate_grad` since functionally, backward api accumulates grad into .grad while grad api captures the grad and returns it.
Moving changes not necessary to the python api (cpp, torchscript) to a new PR.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/46855
Reviewed By: ngimel
Differential Revision: D24649054
Pulled By: soulitzer
fbshipit-source-id: 6925d5a67d583eeb781fc7cfaec807c410e1fc65
