[quant][fx][graphmode] Move more patterns to use ModuleReLU fuse handler (#69644)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/69644
This PR cleans up the init of ModuleReLUFuseHandler and moved all `module - relu`
fusion pattern to use this handler
also disabled additional_fuser_method argument temporarily, will enable
after we bring back the simple pattern format
Test Plan:
```
python test/test_quantize_fx.py TestFuseFx
```
Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: vkuzo
Differential Revision: D32974906
fbshipit-source-id: 23483ea4293d569cb3cec6dadfefd4d9f30921a7
