[JIT] Replace use of "whitelist" in lower_tuples pass (#41460)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/41460
**Test Plan**
Continuous integration.
**Fixes**
This commit partially addresses #41443.
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: suo
Differential Revision: D22544272
Pulled By: SplitInfinity
fbshipit-source-id: b46940d1e24f81756daaace260bad7a1feda1e8f
