[c10d] Use TORCH_CHECK for monitored barrier error (#59667)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/59667
Use torch_check over throw std::runtime_error in monitored barrier so
that it works with torch_cpp_show_stacktraces to reveal the entire callstack
where the monitored barrier failed, which can help determine where the
particular rank encountered an issue.
ghstack-source-id: 130993689
Test Plan: CI
Reviewed By: cbalioglu
Differential Revision: D28974510
fbshipit-source-id: 6a6958995c1066cddcd647ca88c74473079b69fc
