Use Eager Code To Determine Conv Layout (#87305)
The logic for determine conv backend and therefore output striding is very complex. It depends on build settings, input striding/contiguity, sizes, etc. Eventually we should port that logic to the meta impl for dynamic shapes but that will require a lot more work and keeping the implementations in sync. See https://github.com/pytorch/torchdynamo/issues/1701
This is a prerequisite to removing the inductor conv stride propagation and more general fake tensor for inductor propagation. In that PR, the meta impls for cpu conv give incorrect striding which led to test failures (https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/87083).
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/87305
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang
