Match get_attr when compare node (#91657)
The pattern can't be matched if one attribute is `_param_constant1` and the other is `_param_constant0`
Large graph:
```
# call_function addmm_default aten.addmm.default (_param_constant1, ph_0, _tensor_constant0) {}
```
Pattern graph
```
# call_function addmm_default aten.addmm.default (_param_constant0, ph_0, _tensor_constant0) {}
```
Differential Revision: [D42316574](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D42316574/)
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/91657
Approved by: https://github.com/SherlockNoMad
