Add optional is_coalesced argument to sparse coo tensor factory function. (#107638)
Resolves https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/107097
After this PR, instead of
```python
torch.sparse_coo_tensor(indices, values, size)._coalesced_(is_coalesced)
```
(that does not work in the autograd context, see #107097), use
```python
torch.sparse_coo_tensor(indices, values, size, is_coalesced=is_coalesced)
```
All sparse coo factory functions that take indices as input support the `is_coalesced` argument.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/107638
Approved by: https://github.com/cpuhrsch
