Add send and recv backward functions for builtin operators RPC. (#25527)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/25527
Master GH issue: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/23110.
This change builds upon https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/24876 and
provides all the autograd hooks needed for a forward pass with distributed rpc
for builtin operators. This change does not address distributed rpc for python
UDFs and that will be addressed in follow up PRs.
Summary of changes:
1. Attach send autograd functions when a request is sent from the client and
response is sent from the server.
2. Attach receive autograd functions when a request is received on the server
and a response is received on the client.
3. Generate a globally unique autograd_message_id for each send/recv autograd
function pair to uniquely identify them.
ghstack-source-id: 91240466
Test Plan: unit tests.
Differential Revision: D17148077
fbshipit-source-id: 192d8a3f552ed7cc939f55dcca332965c9bd3233
