Update getParamDeclFromOperand to find pack params
Create utility that can find the pack that will be copied into
AllocStackInst, and use it to find the parameter declaration from the
alloc stack operand that gets flagged as escaping noescape.
I have some concern about this changing how checkapply determines what
to look at, but I think it should be more correct to recognize alloc
stack for a pack as potentially escaping with a parameter?