[swiftinterface] Handle target variants the same as targets (#77156)
Based on preliminary work from @rmaz.
The compilation arguments for a swiftinterface file are preprocessed to
modify the `-target` argument to match the preferred target (which comes
from the command line) in cases in which the sub-architecture differs,
but it is compatible (for example using `arm64e` when `arm64` is being
compiled), but this was not done for the target variant, which ended up
with mismatches on the sub-architecture used by the target and target
variant, which fails an assert in assert toolchains.