Swift Optimizer: move `StoreInst.split` into OpUtils.swift
To make it available in other optimizations as well.
Also, a few problems:
* Use destructre instructions when in OSSA
* Don't split the store if it's nominal type has unreferenceable stoarge
* rename it to `trySplit` because it's not guaranteed to work
Also, add the counterpart for load instructions: `LoadInst.trySplit()`
