[cxx-interop] Add `UnsafeCxxMutableInputIterator` protocol
This is an inheritor of the existing `UnsafeCxxInputIterator` protocol, with the only difference being the ability to mutate `var pointee` via a non-const `operator*()`.
This is needed to support mutable subscripts for `std::map` via `CxxDictionary`.
rdar://105399019
