[patternmatch] Add InstructionOperand_match to support for matching against instructions with misc number of operands.
NOTE:
1. To test this I changed UnaryOp_match to use this under the hood.
2. These types of m_##ID##Inst matchers now will only accept compound types and
I added a static assert to verify that this mistake doesn't happen. We
previously had matchers that would take an int or the like to match tuple
extract patterns. I converted those to use TupleExtractOperation that also
properly handles destructures.