[cherry-pick][ci] limit parallel link jobs in buildbot_linux_base to 4 (#88888) (#91235)
Cherry picking #88888 as we bring up more platforms for 6.4.x
- **Explanation**: Cherry picking #88888 as we bring up more platforms
for 6.4.x to prevent OOM issues when building new platforms
- **Scope**: Simply changes the linux build preset with a cmake flag
- **Issues**: NA
- **Original PRs**: #88888
- **Risk**: Very low.
- **Testing**: We run this on main in our CI builds and works fine