[TF] Set default RPATH to toolchain stdlib instead of `/usr/lib/swift` on macOS. (#27206)
Previously, the default RPATH was set to `/usr/lib/swift`.
This caused linker issues on macOS, as tensorflow-branch-specific modules like
TensorFlow and Python do not exist in `/usr/lib/swift`.
This patch defaults the `-toolchain-stdlib-rpath` flag to be true, so the
default RPATH is the toolchain standard library instead of `/usr/lib/swift`.
With this default, the linker issues are fixed. A `-no-toolchain-stdlib-path`
flag is added to opt out of this default, making `/usr/lib/swift` the RPATH.
Add positive/negative tests.
`swift test` works on macOS for packages that import/use TensorFlow again.
Partially reverts https://github.com/apple/swift/pull/24787.
Resolves TF-797.